Hello july !!
Just wanna share sth with u all, have u ever complaint sth to ppl ? I bet u all did,so did i. Bt thn who u complaint to ?
Have u ever noticed that ppl almost always complain to wrong ppl—to ppl who cant do anything to their complaint? They go to work and complain abt their spouse;then they come home and complain to their spouse about d ppl at work.why? Bcz it is easier;less risky. It takes courage to tell your spouse that u are not happy with d way things are at home. It also takes courage to ask ur boss plan better .Only ur boss cn do anything about that.your spouse can"t. :D so I think those are d common examples that we can see around us. We don"t work it out, we jz complain,remain depressed and problem still exist.
So learn to replace complaining with making requests,taking action to achieve ur desired outcome. This is what works.
" dont just sit there (and complain) , do sth "
Okay, I know though d principle is simple bt it is not necessarily easy to implement. It requires willingness to experiment and take risks. I couldnt make it as well, so try it. Everyone is learning.
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